There’s been a lot of talk about penis size in the news lately. This is thanks to recent research that indicates women prefer bigger penises and that penis size affects attractiveness. In other words, the research found that a bigger dick makes a man more attractive to women. But before we label all women “Size Queens”, let’s take a minute to be real…
To begin with, the average erect penis ranges in size from 4.7 to 6.3 inches. Research shows that 85% of women are satisfied with that amount. “Satisfied” is the key word here. The majority of us are OK with average penises. Who is not satisfied with penis size? MEN. In the same research study, it was found that only 45% of men are happy with their penis size. So, my question is: Who is really more concerned with penis size? Not women, but men!!
So what are most women really concerned with when it comes to penises? In one word – girth. In several research studies, it was found that women actually prefer thickness over length. In one study, it was shown that women achieve vaginal orgasm much easier with greater penis girth. Why might this be? More girth means greater pressure against the g-spot. The g-spot is packed full of erogenous nerves and provides a large amount of sexual stimulation when rubbed or pressed. So, a penis with average to above average girth is going to be a girl’s best friend.
From experience, I agree with this theory. I prefer a penis that’s about 6-7 inches long, but that is above average in girth. I am not talking Coke can girth, but more juicy cucumber girth. Why? Greater girth provides more sensation and fullness. You can have a long dick. But if it’s pencil thin, it’s not going to be pleasurable to me. It’s not going to hit all the good spots. I don’t know about other women, but I don’t consider my cervix to be a good spot. It can be uncomfortable for a penis to hit it repeatedly. But, my g-spot? That’s an AWESOME spot… and only a penis with decent girth is going to rub that sucker!
Need further convincing? Let me tell you some of the reasons why I personally don’t like really huge dicks…
- I like anal… and if you have a BIG dick, that’s a no-go! Anyone with well above average length or girth can just stay away from my back door. Why? Despite what porn says, having a huge thing shoved in your ass isn’t all that pleasant. That’s right – big dicks make anal too painful for the average woman. The rectum is not stretchy like the vagina. There’s only so much you can get in there without tearing, bleeding, or other not so fun kinds of damage.
- Girl on top… This position becomes difficult with larger dicks because there’s only so deep you can go. The average vagina is only about 3-4 inches deep. If you have an 8″ penis, I cannot sit on that. It’s more like I have to hover over it. Think about it. It’s just not all that pleasurable for me.
- Blowjobs… Yes, some people like to be gagged when giving head. In fact, I sometimes like to be gagged when giving head. But, the average mouth has a depth of only 4″. So when giving a blowjob to a huge dick, you can only take so much into your mouth. And I personally don’t want 4″ of cock being shoved down my throat. That’s too much gag!!! Plus, you’ll get lockjaw.
Maybe you are a man with average length and girth. Maybe you are not entirely convinced that it’s ok, that women will be satisfied with your package. You may be asking yourself: “what can I do with my average penis?” The answer is… EVERYTHING! If you are a man of average length and girth, count yourself lucky. The skies the limit. Your penis will work well for oral, vaginal, and anal!
And one final thought… Only 20% of women experience vaginal orgasms. Why is this important? Because while we enjoy intercourse, the best way to make us happy is through other means than your penis. Your penis may be huge. But if you can’t make us cum, at the end of the day, it doesn’t matter how big your dick is…